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AN INTERVIEW WITH DR. OMOLOLA OMOTESO

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By Scroll report Lagos, Nigeria.

Interview with Dr. Omolola Omoteso

Scroll Report: May I meet you?

I am Dr. Omolola Omoteso, a woman of many parts. I am privileged to have obtained a number of certificates and degrees within and outside Nigeria including Curriculum Planning Certificate, Bachelors in Philosophy, Masters in International Affairs (Communication and Development) and Doctorate in Biblical Counselling. I am amongst other roles a media/social media consultant, communication specialist, public affairs analyst and social advocate with a passion for developing people… I’m a journalist and book writer too. I have authored 7 books including ghost written and authored titles.

Dr. Omolola Omoteso

Scroll Report: What is the full meaning of SAN?

SAN means Solidarity Action Network (SAN). Solidarity Action Network is a league of professionals focused on real positive change, good governance and better life for Nigerians beginning with members! SAN is a tool for instilling righteousness aka integrity in the people and those in the corridors of power towards lasting change. When many hear SAN, they think about Senior Advocate of Nigeria. Ironically the name was coined to mimic this revered title held by Prof. Yemi Osinbajo. The inspiration came from God as a way to initially support the candidacy of the VP during the elections. We are committed to instituting a culture of good governance and integrity in Nigeria through advocacy with those in the corridors of power and individualised concept of change, which begins with self. SAN addresses critical issues that affect Nigerians without discrimination. Some have called it a pressure group while others have called it a movement but the founders have called it a support medium for REAL change. We support the concept of change and have positioned ourselves to be the change we seek with regards to good governance in Nigeria. We have as members credible and disciplined Nigerians from all walks of life spread across the nation and beyond. Our vision is to be the reference standard for upright, non-partisan and non-sectional thoughts, initiatives, projects and actions. Our mission is to empower members to individualise change, become nationally conscientious, commit to repairing institutions, drive accountability beginning with self and advocate for good governance in order to reap the rich benefits in Nigeria. To join, prospective members are required to send a request and have at least two members in right standing vouch for their integrity.

Scroll Report: Tell us what the event is all about?

The event is a partnership between four groups including Genotype Foundation. Our upcoming event scheduled for February 11, 2017 by 9AM is themed Prayer and Advocacy Walk Against Medical Negligence and Cares to Street Children. We are doing it in memory of lives lost to preventable medical mistakes. We plan to gather at Ikeja Airport Hotel for a short talk and prayer before we head out. Registration will begin at 8AM during which participants will be registered and advocacy materials handed out. We will thereafter walk from the hotel to the point of advocacy in Allen. While en-route we will give out fliers about medical negligence and child abuse. At the point of advocacy, we would share our thoughts peacefully on medical negligence. Thereafter, we will move to under the bridge in Ikeja to care for street children. We have asked participants who can afford it to make a donation to cover tshirt, meal pack and cares pack to the street children. But those who cannot afford to donate may join us; they can wear a touch of white and wine tshirt. Members of Solidarity Action Network (SAN), members of Prayer Channel for Nigeria (PC4N, a group affiliated to SAN), friends of the Bola-Omoteso Memorial Watch (BMW) and all those who believe in this worthy cause are welcome to support as they deem fit.

Scroll Report: Who are you inviting?

We have invited many people from all walks of life including members of the 4 participating groups, the Vice President and the Former First Lady of Lagos State, Dame Emmanuella Abimbola Fashola. But you know how engaged these ones are. However, their support will come in handy to record success. That said, we are more concerned about the message being passed across than about making this a star studded walk. This interview is a great gesture and will help pass the message. We hope other media will pick it up too. We have a modest expectation of physical participation since this is the first time a walk against medical negligence is going on in Nigeria to the best of our knowledge. We are looking at 25 ad-hoc staff members, 75 walkers and 100 children (total 200). We plan to give packs containing food and other care items to participants and street children. It is sad that many big companies prefer to sponsor entertainment and related jamboree but those who find this cause worthy and would like to donate in kind and/or cash are welcome to reach us with details via [email protected].

Scroll Report: What do you hope to achieve?

Our walk is not against the government though definitely policies will aid our demands. We want to draw the attention of relevant agencies e.g. Nigeria Medical Association to the issue of medical negligence. Most importantly, we want to inform Nigerians to be aware that they can mitigate medical negligence by asking questions and insisting that clinics, hospitals where their loved ones die process credible autopsy and death certificate. Many clinics refuse to do so, so as not to be seen as having a high death rate. If they issue or process death certificates then their death rates will be a cause for concern but they prefer to deceive the public. I once heard of a doctor who cried privately like a baby following the death of an elderly man under his watch. A junior colleague had given the wrong anaesthesia, which led to the man’s death but it was explained away to the family as age factor when in actual fact it was not. We have situations where doctors go for private practice and leave inexperienced doctors to attend to their patients leading to casualties. I have once witnessed a pregnant woman who delivered her baby on the floor at General Hospital Lagos about 6 years ago. What happened? She was brought in as an emergency case but the medical doctor on duty was SLEEPING! The nurses appeared busy doing nothing and I started praying and asked the woman’s mother to start praying as the medical practitioners cannot help her. When the doctor woke up and asked, he was told, “It was a breech, we took care of it… No record.” All attempts to develop and publish the story was rebuffed, unfortunately I was not aware of any reporting medium. We hope the walk will draw attention to the need for a bureau to investigate care and deaths, just like the Office of the Public Defender. Yes in the case of death, everyone wants to blame everyone but some cases are clearly cases of negligence. For instance, in my beloved ones case the clinic unknown to us did not have an Intensive Care Unit (ICU), which is very necessary due to the high risk of ailment they treat. Worst still, there was no ambulance driver when his situation required movement to a better facility. He may not have died if an ICU was in place or if a driver was on hand to move him.

Scroll Report: Is this the first time you are organising this event?

I have been involved with many advocacy events especially for children, young people and the unmarried including widows but the advocacy against medical negligence is happening for the first time as I mentioned. The care for street children is something we have done in different ways before now. Few years before the Federal Government came up with the School Feeding Programme, we were part of a Mid-Day Meal Project and Sandals for Soles Vision to Primary School Students in Ogun State. We have organised many programmes for children during which we care, counsel and feed. We have held career conferences for youths and projects and research at orphanages and remand homes. But this is taking us to the street children who unfortunately have become a part of our society. This will not just be care by mouth; we will counsel them in groups about health, safety, education and the need to be prayerful. We need all hands on deck to achieve success in both programmes.

N’ZONZI IS ON THE RADAR OF BIG ENGLISH PREMIER LEAGUE CLUBS

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By Afolabi Adetunji Lagos, Nigeria.

Steven N’Zonzi is still having a very impressive season in Spain. The former Stoke City player is one of Sevilla’s most important components in their fight for the title this year, something that comes as a surprise even for those who follow him closely.

Steven N’Zonzi

 

 

 

 

 

The player is in no doubt in form, and they take stats to compare him to other league players. By only considering the passes per game, they found out N’Zonzi is first in the league, leaving all of Barcelona and Real Madrid players behind.

Now many English clubs have been interested in bringing him back to the Premier League, and this time, Arsenal are mentioned in that list.

N’zonzi  club Deportivo claims that Arsenal, Juventus, Chelsea and Manchester City are all intrested in the player, and his father Fidele is being hard on the negotiations with the Spanish side to renew his contract.

The player currently has a €30m release clause, although Estadio Deportivo claims his ‘real price’ should be something between €40m and €50m. That’s why Sevilla are in a hurry for an extension.

It’s perhaps surprising that Arsenal, Chelsea, Manchester City, or any other club interested, haven’t had a go at matching the clause and trying to convince the player.

TODAY’S FASHION

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By Queensland Fashion Lagos, Nigeria.

Style is something that comes from within. The joy of dress is an art and life is not perfect but your outfit can be. The moment you realize yourself and be yourself you can create your own intrinsic style of dressing that may end up becoming a trend. Remember to always smile it adds to your look and can create positive atmosphere within you and to those around you.

Amazing Outfits:

 

DELTA STATE IS SUFFERING FROM BAD LEADERSHIP, POOR GOVERNANCE- UTOMI

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

 A renowned economist and a chieftain of the All Progressive Congress APC, Prof. Pat Utomi has attributed the backwardness of Delta State to poor governance, noting that Delta today has become like a land ravaged by locust.

Prof. Pat Utomi

He spoke at a reconciliatory visit to some APC leaders in Delta Central hosted by Dr. Veronica Ogbuagu in Warri, Wednesday.

Prof. Utomi stated that Delta state could have become the Dubai of Africa, considering the resources that accrued to the state.

He blamed successive administrations since 1999 for the sorry state of Delta, asserting that they jettisoned great ideas which were freely offered to them to transform Delta and wasted several opportunities.

In his word: “Each time I look at my state, all I feel is shame, all Delta elites should be ashamed of what have become of their state. With all the resources that the state is blessed with, we have nothing to show more than decayed infrastructure.

“To change this narrative; APC in Delta state must reconcile and reconstruct its strategies if we really want a better Delta, if not history will hold us all responsible for not acting when we should.”

In her remark, Dr. Veronica Ogbuagu, a former Commissioner for Education in the state, collaborating Utomi’s view said that Delta state is very sick, due to poor leadership and followership, stressing that the people celebrate incompetency and mediocrity.

Bemoaning the poor state of things in Delta, she noted that; “if nothing is done to change the state of things in Delta, the generation to come will spit on our graves, because Delta has become a failed state.”

While appreciating the need for unity in APC, Dr. Ogbuagu said that there cannot be any meaningful reconciliation until the “illegal” Delta state executive of the APC is dissolved, and an all-embracing caretaker committee put in place, and congress held, the party will just be joking.

GROUP BERATES 15 BAALES FOR STOPPING OYO LGs ALLOCATION

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

The 15 Baales, who got an interim injunction from an Abuja High Court last week stopping the federal allocations to the 33 local governments in Oyo State as well as the conduct of the LG election, has been berated by a socio-cultural group.

The group, Oyo Development Initiative (ODI) said that the action of the Baales to contest the legality of some Local Council Development Areas (LCDAs) has put local government administration in Oyo State in limbo.

The group in a statement by its Coordinator, Dr. Adesola Okanlawon stressed that while it believes that the case is already in court and some comments on it might lead to contempt, it is however expedient to highlight the implications of the court order on the citizens and development of the state.

He said “the plaintiffs in the suit might not have thought deeply about the implications of their action. They have issues with four LGAs and some of the newly created LCDAs. We believe they should have sought an order affecting the four disputed local governments in order not to jeopardize the welfare of the entire state.

“Perfection belongs to God and no individual can claim to be perfect.  Government itself knew that there could be imbalances in the creation of LCDAs as established in 2001. Hence, the establishments of a petition review committee. These perceived imbalances should therefore not lead to the hardship for larger section of the state.  The LCDAs will no doubt enhance grassroots developments and bring even distribution of dividends of democracy to the communities in the state.

“It is to be noted that the action of these Baales will affect salary payment which was not regular before. It will also impact negatively on the development at the grassroots and by extension, the general welfare of the people. In short, their action has multiplier effects and everyone in the state will bear the brunt.

“It now behoove on the state government to do the needful in order to get the injunction vacated as soon as possible. This act will make the people insinuating that the Oyo State government is behind the court case to prevent the conduct of LGs election to have a rethink that the government has nothing to do with the interim injunction”.

The group appealed to the state government to seek every legal mean to speedily resolve the impasse, saying that it is only those who do not want grassroots development that will be against the creation of LCDAs.

 

TACTICS FOR OVERCOMING SUGAR ADDICTION

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

Are you addicted to sugar?

Addiction to sugar is stronger for some people than others, but the truth is sugar is a powerfully addictive substance. If you have overindulged in cookies, candy, cake, or ice cream. Food manufacturers bank on it when they load sugar into soft drinks, breakfast cereal, soups, salad dressings, spaghetti sauce, energy bars.

Sugar

Addiction to sugar is probably more common than you think. Some people consume an average of 20 to 30 teaspoons daily of this substance, which has been linked to variety of health problems, including obesity, hypertension, heart disease, diabetes, irritable bowel syndrome, attention and memory problems, hyperactivity, anxiety and depression. Every month a new study comes out adding to the list of dangers posed by consuming sugar. Despite the risk, we continue to eat sugar because it is so addictive.

Infact, sugar meets all the criteria for an addictive substance:

It stimulates release of neurotransmitters in the brain, such as dopamine and serotonin in a manner similar to alcohol, cocaine and other drugs of abuse.

People eat it compulsively, despite negative consequences and intention to stop.

With continued use, people develop a tolerance to its effects.

Heavy sugar consumers have trouble fuctioning without it.

When consumption ceases, withdrawal symptoms occur. Breaking free from a dependency on sugar addiction are both physical and emotional, you need a combination of physical and psychological approaches. The less you eat sugar, the less you will crave for it. If you get withdrawal symptons, know they will only last a few days and then you’ll feel more balanced and energetic than ever.

Recommendations will make it easier to get it easier to get a sugar problem under control

Keep sugar and sugar products out of your house. This include white and brown sugar, corn syrup, and maple syrup.

Eat enough healthy food to satisfy your hunger. Eat healthy, whole food snacks like fruit, carrots, red pepper, cherry tomatoes. Drink plenty of water. Add a little fruit juice to sweeten iced tea, carbonated water, and other sugar-free drinks. Frozen fruit, whole or purred, make a delicious alternative to ice cream. Once you have cleared sugar from your system, your taste buds will become more sensitive, and these whole natural foods will become more sensitive and these whole natural foods will taste sweeter and more satisfying. If you slow down and eat mindfully, you will enjoy these foods even more.

Eat three regular meals each day that combine complex carbohydrate, vegetables, whole grains, fruits, lean protein, poultry, fish, meat, diary, tofu and healthy fats, milk cheese, omega-3’s, olive oil. These will help you maintain a steady blood sugar level throughout the day and reduce your sugar cravings. Eating a diet high in fiber also helps to reduce sugar cravings. Eating a diet high in fiber also helps to reduce sugar cravings.

Take a multivitamin and mineral supplement.

When you go out, make sure you are not ravenously hungry, especially if sugary sweets will be the only food available. Bring your own healthy snacks with you, or eat before going out.

Get regular exercise, plenty of sunlight and adequate sleep to reduce sugar cravings.

Learn to identify and manage cravings that are not a result of physical hunger, but instead are rooted in stress: take a book, play with your pet, watch a movie. Breathe, meditate, listen to activate your body’s relaxation response. Relaxation helps to balance your blood sugar and reduce cravings.

MARCH AGAINST UNDERFUNDING AND INDISCRIMINATE FEE HIKES

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

The Save TASUED and Fund Education Coalition (STAFEC) wishes to seize this medium to inform the mass of the Nigerian populace its dauntless resolve to stage a mass action against the anti student/anti-poor policies of the Amosun led government of Ogun State on the 6th of February 2017. The mass action is aimed at showing our displeasure towards the premeditated neglect of public education especially TASUED by the Amosun Government of Ogun State. We take exception to the illegal and arbitrary tax of N10, 000 imposed on students and we reject in totality, the increment in acceptance fee from N30, 000 to N40, 000. The coalition maintains an outright rejection of the introduction of N25, 000 registration fee; we consider it as fraudulent, thoughtless and unacceptable especially at the time the same students and their unpaid parents barely managed to pay the pocket tearing N76, 500 school fees, astronomical acceptance fee and many other ridiculous charges. We consider it as wicked to impose such enormous burden on poor Nigerian parents at a time of a biting recession that sees the average Nigerian family regard a two square meal as an unaffordable luxury.

The coalition demands immediate reversal of all of these anti-poor policies, a careful probe into the spending of the University management and immediate upward funding of the University vis the prompt/adequate payment of the allowances of Staff Unions of the institution. The government in the past years has deliberately starved the University of the Needed Fund to indeed function as a qualified tertiary institution.  The respective state governments of Ogun State have for a very long time taken a huge delight in Underfunding TASUED. For instance, the Gbenga Daniel led PDP government allocates an insignificant paltry of 61million naira on a yearly basis, although not adequate and timely. The much condemned underfunding of the Gbenga Daniel regime was only surpassed by ridiculous extent of the gross irresponsibility of Amosun led APC government whose immense hatred and disgraceful demeanor for education compelled  him to dwindle yearly allocation of the University to a mere 16million naira (even this has not been paid for quite a number of months).

This inglorious tradition of Underfunding has contributed immensely to the antiquated condition the University finds itself. Else, how does a University that is supposed to be 12 years, the first University of Education in Nigeria, second in Africa and eight in the world and yet cannot boast of modern and adequate learning facilities, decent hostels and other municipal services. It is a height of understatement to regard the laboratories and libraries as obsolete.

The consequence of this unfortunate trend of underfunding aside from the above stated disgusting scenario is inadequate payment of salaries/allowances of members of the University Staff Unions (ASUU, NASU, SSANU, and NAAT). The imposition of arbitrary tax on students is in addition to its illegality a deliberate ploy to exploit mass of students and their poor and unpaid/underpaid parents.

This reckless display of utter ineptitude by government has inevitably influenced the extortionist policies of the management of the institution. The astronomical school fees of TASUED, the increase in the charges of vocational studies (subsequently and fraudulently disguised as registration fee) from N1000 to N25, 000, the imposition of N20, 000 as penalty for late submission of clearance file and the despotic increment of acceptance fee from N30, 000 to N40, 000; are few of the many anti-poor/student policies incited by government unacceptable neglect of the
institution.

While reasserting our resolve to prosecute the February 6 mass action to press home our demands, we reiterate our demand for the immediate reversal of the above stated insensitive policies of the government and management as well as adequate funding of TASUED to the standard of a typical 21st century tertiary institution.

Signed;
Tai Solarin Students’ Union.
The National Secretariat, National Universities Education Student
Association (NUESA).
Alliance of Nigerian Students against Neoliberal Attacks (ANSA)
Abraham Adesanya Students’ Union, Students and Youth Activists Support initiative (SAYASI)

DELTA GOVERNMENT EFFORTS IN TACKLING KIDNAPPING YIELDING POSITIVE RESULT-OKOWA

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

DELTA State Governor, Senator Dr. Ifeanyi Okowa has said the govt efforts in collaboration with security operatives in tackling  kidnapping activities in the state was yielding positive results.

Okowa made the disclosure yesterday in Asaba when the Principal, Petroleum Training Institute (PTI), Effurun, Prof. Sunny Iyuke led top management of the institution to pay him a courtesy visit.

The governor decried a situation where most of the arrested kidnappers are young men and are not from the southern part of the country, assuring that kidnapping activities have greatly reduced in the state.

He called for vigilance among the people, noting that “with the signing into law of the Delta State Anti-Cultism and Anti-Terrorism Bill 2016, the Judiciary has been very proactive, six special courts have been set up to try those who were arrested for kidnapping and acts of terrorism and we are confident that issues of kidnapping and related offences would be a thing of the past in our state in the nearest future to encourage socio-economic life of the people.”

Okowa also, assured the management of PTI of his administration’s continual assistance to Federal Government’s institutions, stating that apart from giving attention to federal road projects that have failed, the Chief Job Creation Officer in the state would liaise with the PTI for some beneficiaries of his administration’s different skill acquisition programmes to utilise the institute’s facilities.

He disclosed that more than 4000 youths have been trained in the different skill acquisition programmes which were designed to train, equip and mentor the beneficiaries to enable them succeed in their chosen fields.

On the issue of Delta Glass Company and the Asaba Textile Mill, Governor Okowa disclosed that there were challenges as it concerned receivership of the companies which his administration was working on in the overall best interests of Deltans.

Prof. Iyuke had in an address, listed out areas the PTI could partner with the Delta State government and also, lauded Governor Okowa’s administration on its “developmental effort in the state.”

OYO TO CHALLENGE ORDER ON LG ALLOCATIONS, ELECTIONS

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By Scroll reporter Lagos, Nigeria.

The Oyo State Government has said it would rigorously contest the legality of the interim injunction emanating from the creation of the 35 Local Government Development Areas (LCDAs) and restricting the state from conducting local governments’ election, saying that it borders on the welfare of the entire citizens, payment of salaries and grassroots development.

The state Attorney General and Commissioner of Justice, Oluseun Abimbola, who stated this on Tuesday at a press briefing held at the governor’s office, noted that the state government would abide by all the orders in the suit FHC/ABJ/CS/16/2017 pending determination by the court.

Abimbola pointed out that one the orders directing the 2nd (Accountant General of the Federation), 3rd (Central Bank of Nigeria) 4th (Revenue Mobilization and Fiscal Commission) and 5th  (Federal Ministry of Finance) defendants to warehouse in an interest yielding account, all monies and or allocations belonging to the distorted 33 constitutionally recognised local governments in Oyo State, pending the determination of the Motion on Notice was an ambush on the allocation meant for the local governments in the state which would affect the welfare of the people, payment of salaries and the development of the grassroots.

The AG and Commissioner of Justice, who was assisted at the briefing by his counterparts from the Ministries of Local Government and Chieftaincy Matters and Information, Culture and Tourism, Messrs. Bimbo Kolade and Toye Arulogun as well as the Special adviser to Governor Ajimobi on Communication and Strategy, Yomi Layinka, urged the citizens of the state to be peaceful and law abiding, stressing that local governments election would still hold but not until the judicial process affecting its conduct dealt with.

According to Abimbola, “fifteen (15) claimants filed actions on behalf of some villages in some LGs in Oyo and 10 defendants have been joined in the suit which include the Oyo State Government, Oyo State House of Assembly, the Attorney General of the Federation, Accountant General of the Federation, Central Bank of Nigeria, Revenue Mobilization and Fiscal Commission,  Federal Ministry of Finance, Independent National Electoral Commission, Oyo State Independent Electoral Commission and Oba Lamidi Olayiwola Adeyemi III, the Alaafin of Oyo.

“The suit emanated based of the grievances of these plaintiffs on the creation of LCDAs in about two local governments in Oyo Town. They submitted their petitions to the LCDAs Petitions Review Committee headed by me like other aggrieved parties and they have made their presentations. Our committee has been sitting and complaints have been reviewed. However, we are surprised that the state government is taken to court over the issue they have made presentations on. They have the right to do so under that the provision of the constitution and the legality of the orders will be rigorously contested by the government.

“Meanwhile, we are going to abide by the interim order and that puts the conduct of the already scheduled February 11, 2017 local government election on hold. The nation’s electoral body has been directed not to release the voters’ register and without this, there cannot be election. We want to reassure the citizens that election will hold as soon as we settle the court case. We urge the citizens to be law abiding and be peaceful in their endeavours,” Abimbola stressed.

Speaking at the briefing while responding to questions, the Commissioner for Information, Culture and Tourism, Toye Arulogun noted that it is a misrepresentation of facts for some individuals and groups to insinuate that the state government orchestrated the suit, adding that it would be unreasonable for the Oyo State Government to go to court to seek an order aimed at crippling the finances of local governments in the state at a very critical time such as this. He added that the order of the court had far reaching implications on the Government and the governed in the state.

He reiterated that the government has shown its readiness for the conduct of the elections by instituting OYSIEC, setting a date for elections, releasing funds for OYSIEC, printing of election materials and purchase of utility vehicles, pointing out that only a mischievous and cynical mind would doubt the government’s commitment to conduct the elections given the amount of evidence indicating the contrary.

The Commissioner for Local Government and Chieftaincy  Matters, Bimbo Kolade disclosed that majority of the people of the state had embraced the new LCDAs and demonstrated support by volunteering and pledging buildings as offices and homes, furniture and other essentials towards the successful take – off of the new LCDAs. He appealed to the people of the state to remain calm and assured them that government will implement the LCDAs as an actualization of the yearnings of the people.

DIARY OF A WIDOW

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By Adenike Ladipo Lagos, Nigeria.

Life indeed is amazing; it’s a decider sometimes of what we are and who we will become.

My story is that of a woman who went to bed, having had a promising conversation with her husband. Less than nine hours later, was jolted by the news of his death.

I still remember vividly when I received the news of my husband’s demise, it felt like I was in a bad dream, a nightmare. I was pleading to come out from, then waking up to reality, I was in complete shock, many thoughts were going through my mind. “so am now alone”? “who do I turn to”? and “where do I go from here”? It was a very scary experience, and it is natural that you would be frightened by the huge weight of reality staring at you right in the face. It takes the inner strength and strong will to pull yourself together and raise your head a little high and decide to face and deal with the situation, your first consideration are the children, they need your strength, you just have to be strong for them inspite of it all.

I began the journey into widowhood, though not by choice, yet I found myself here, who would have wished for this. It took a while, but I was able to tell myself I need to make a difference however the circumstances.

Note, there are no standard forms or rules or even principles on how to act or behave as a widow. You learn how to walk the path sometimes you stumble, many a times you fall, if not careful, you fall flat on your face. Your ability to rise and learn from the cause is what makes the difference in your life. I can speak on this matter, for I learnt, not many who come around to mourn with you are friends and confidants. Unconsciously, you hand over the reign of your life to them and before you realize yourself, you are already dancing to their whims and caprices and any attempt to act otherwise, you are seen as becoming rebellious to the norm.

I will share with you my journey, my mistakes, my weakness, my resolve, my strength, how I stumbled and found the will to take another chance because I believe!

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